केही वर्षयता मेरा श्रीमान् विदेशमा हुनुहुन्छ । दुई छोरीसँग म घरमा बस्छु । केही दिनयता एउटा छिमेकी पुरुष मेरो सम्पर्कमा आयो । हामीबीच रमाइलो वार्तालाप हुँदाहुँदै यौनसम्पर्क हुन गयो । त्यसपछि हामीबीच सम्पर्कको क्रम बढ्दै गयो । केही दिनयता मलाई थाहा भयो त्यो युवक ड्रग एडिक्ट रहेछ । उसले मलाई पैसाका लागि धम्क्याउने, पिट्ने तथा यातनापूर्ण तरिकाबाट यौनतृष्णा मेट्ने कार्य गर्न थालेको छ । कहिले म आफन्तकहाँ लुक्छु । झ्याल-ढोका बन्द गरेर बस्दा पनि झ्याल फुटाएर भित्र पस्छ । छिमेकीहरू सबैले मेरो गल्ती देखाएर मलाई घृणा गर्न थालेका छन् । ऊ मेरा छोरीहरूकै अगाडि मसँग अभद्र तरिकाबाट प्रस्तुत हुन्छ । मैले यो दानवबाट कसरी छुटकारा पाउन सक्छु ? मेरो समस्यालाई बुझी उपयुक्त सुझाव दिए आभारी हुने थिएँ ।

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तपाईंको भविष्य तपाईंले चाल्ने सकारात्मक कदमले निर्धारण गर्छ । अहिलेसम्म तपाईंले जेजस्तो क्रियाकलाप गर्नुभयो त्यो कति हदसम्म गलत रहेछ भनेर सायद तपाईंले मनन गरसिक्नुभयो । श्रीमान्को अनुपस्थितिमा गैरव्यक्तिलाई आफ्नो मनमा स्थान दिनु नै ठूलो भूल थियो । तपाईंको मानसिक पीडालाई म बुझ्छु । नशालु पदार्थ दुव्र्यसनीलाई लाज, घिन, डर, समाज एवं कानुनको परििधले छुँदैन । अब तपाईंले आफै सतर्क हुने तथा उपुयक्त निर्णय लिनुपर्ने हुन्छ । सबैभन्दा पहिले श्रीमान्लाई बोलाउनुहोस् । आफू असुरक्षित भएको कारण देखाई सपरविार सँगै बस्न अनुरोध गर्नुहोस् । तपाईंको घर भाडामा दिएर वा बेचेर टाढा गएर बस्नुहोस् । छिमेकीले तपाईंलाई सहयोग गर्न सक्थे तर तपाईंप्रति नकारात्मक सोच बनाइसकेको एवं घृणा विकास गरसिकेको अवस्थामा तपाईंले त्यो सहयोग पाउन सक्नुहुन्न । कसैलाई थाहै नदिई कतै टाढा गएर बस्नुभयो भने तपाईंको परविारको भविष्य सुरक्षित हुनसक्छ । आत्मबल बलियो बनाउनुहोस् । भावनामा नबहकिनुहोस् । विचार गरेर मात्र कुनै कदम चाल्नुहोस् । हामी तपाईंको सुखद् भविष्यको कामना गर्दछौं ।
what do you guys think shud she be punished or praised?

Erm....You sure that you're using the correct term "Praised" in your thread?! Praised would be one of the most irrelevant words that you could've used to question the woman... What did she do that we could even consider praising her?!

bhalbhadra you are right. i know this is the most irrelevant word for such prostitute but some women will surely say she shud be praised because she dared enjoy her life being independent of her husband. did you read her problem she still says मैले यो दानवबाट कसरी छुटकारा पाउन सक्छु ? hahahahahahahaaa if that guy is दानव what shud be the proper name for her? see the advice given to her. wah .... woman the hell ... guys do you believe woman....the so called woman psychologist has not discouraged her to do such malpractise.

One this about women is that THEY ALWAYS TRY TO POTRAIT THEMSELVES AS BICHARI . Even if they are wrong they somehow try to prove how bad they were treated and how good they are.

My sugesstion to guys are dont get fooled by such woman who comes to you and talks how much sorrow and pain they have gone through even when she knows you for a very short time. These womens are actually looking for guys and relationships with such woman may seem wonderful initially but as the time passes these relationships only give trouble. Be aware guys.

Womens are themselves responsible for their miseries.
Couldn't she wring the neck of that bloody lech? couldn't she file a complaint? couldn't she hire someone to kick his ass? couldn't she cut his "you_know_what" with a scissor? Atleast she could ram a knife into his stomach, couldn't she? Y is she crying for help? she did the mistake so she'll have to help herself . Every creature has the right to defend themselves.