Good Morning Sajhaites!!!

I know it?s hard to work on Monday morning after that great weekend. Same here. So I thought I will start this thread hope all of us will participate.

Last evening, I was surfing the net and reading the threads on Sajha, suddenly my msn messenger started blinking. It was my ex girl friend on the other side. She was my first love and I was her first love too. I replied her and we chatted for about an hour or more. It was so nice to talk to her and she was so happy to talk to me.

After the conversation was over and I went to my bed, then I started recalling those event. One can never forget his/her first love. It?s so refreshing. Then I started thinking about the reason behind our break up. There were certain misunderstanding by that time and probably we were immature too. But the love was true.

Here we go!!!

I think all of us sajhaites have gone through that situation in our life. Some of us might have become lucky to get that first love as a life partner but I bet most of us must have ended up in the middle somewhere. There might be some reason behind that. You may still feel that it was her/his fault and you were so dedicated to the relation whereas some of you may want to realize that there was your fault.

So please sajhaites go ahead and help me out and make me and yourself feel ?I am not alone?.

Happy Monday!!

No u r not alone.

Texan,

I read your story. It is so good that you were the first love of that girl. I have different story. Heheheh.
I had loved a girl and she was my first love but I was not her first love. Now after all these break up I still remember her as my first love but she doesn?t. She remembers her first love some one else?:((

फर्स्ट लप रे, मलाइ त लप भनेको नि याद छैन यार, त्यस्तो कुरामा बिश्वास गर्न छोडेको जुग बितिसक्यो!!!...:D
तर तिमी एक्लो छैनौ साथि, साझामा हामी नि छौ!!!!....:)

ROFL, Nepzz's funny :D :D

Testi huncha tyo umer ma. j dekhyo ramro lahne. Ali kati ramro kt dekhyo ki love pari halne(aafno tarfa baa) ani alidin bhaye pachi aarko ramri dekhyo feri love parne. testo bhaye pachi break up nabhaya k huncha ta? Texan i'll tell you one thing if you break up do not go back to her cuz it will cause the problem in your further life.
tha ha cha hola ni ek choti futera talako feri feri charkane sambhabhana huncha. so move on and get new life.

Meera

I am crying here...u feel funny...:P re kya...thanx

I dont believe in first love but just getting concerned about things you've wrote up there, how can you get so normal with your ex or talk with her on msn/ph, thats impossible like seriously,either get so outta my life or appologize and try to make up if possible. A'nt I right?

-"560" bhitra pareka jastai Parna Maan Chha Bhane; Love- gare Hunchha, ani Biya.

-Don't try to make up if a relation had broken already. That doesn't work and not a practicle way to move forward in life.

-BD

I agree with texan! Once in a blue moon when my ex-bf pops up in my msn.... i still get butterflies in my stomach... ..everything was going great ..but we broke up .. now after all these years.. when both of us have a lil chit chat... we don't know why our relationship ended...now he is living a different life n so m i... but I will never ever forget him!!!

Zindagi Ka Safar Hai Ye Kaisa Safar
Koi Samjha Nahin Koi Jaana Nahin
Hai Ye Kaisi Dagar Chalte Hain Sab Magar
Koi Samjha Nahin Koi Jaana Nahin

well i said IF POSSIBLE, I've seen relations like that uhumm :)

No Texan youre not alone....

MSN or Yahoo or AIM is a different thing, I bumped into my ex the other day and it was a total co-incidence. None of us are from that place but we were visiting our frens in that place, and no our frens are not frens. but we still ended up bumping into each other...

there definitely will be that attachment with your ex, let alone your first love.... its different when the other person is the first person you gave your heart to. no matter what the reason is for breaking up, there still will be that small feeling towards them... no matter what !!!

Good evening guys!!!

It was so good to hear from you all. Special thanx to Meera. You started it and it went this far.

Nepzz you are funny. I found myself more lucky then you are...lol

Nirman: Mero pani lop napareko dherai bhayi sakyo...yo ta hijo suddenly..puraano ghaau baljheko matra...thanx
Spirit: Thanx a lot. But I have never said that I am gonna start the new relation again.
Candy: I used to believe the way u believe at this moment. It happened yesterday and was pretty different. Read what Nepzz says :))

Dreamz 05 and Freak Alien: You two guys made me really feel I am not alone. Kya kare Dil ki Baat hai...na laato se manta hai na baato se manta hai ;)

End of Monday.. One day less to next weekend.....

Lop ta mero ni parekai ho ...kurkure baisaa pareko lop kyarera dherai tiktho ra? tara pani yeso barsaa 10-12 choti ramro sanga ekanta ma bhetna payera 3 barsa jati ta tiko...tyespachi ta YES YAL SI sakoo ...uu ta birani bhaihalichin ni..maile ni naya bhetaye...kayrne formally ta break bha chaina taipani aas chai chaina hai tyo mori ko. Eh marli feri aahileki le

aba texan lai dhadas bhayeni dinu paro bhanera jokhim uuthako...eklo timi chainau hai Texan.

Reminded me of my love, love that didn't work well. Reminded me of a song, song that i never sang well.

Here goes the lyrics:
Still a little bit of your taste in my mouth
Still a little bit of you laced with my doubt
Still a little hard to say what's going on
Still a little bit of your ghost, your witness
Still a little bit of your face I haven't kissed
You step a little closer each day
That I can?t say what's going on

ChrisCornell

I just googled the name of my first love and it looks like she is doing well in life. I found her email address /phone number but I don't think I am going to write or call - what's the point - why blast her from the past - for all I know she probably has a protective husband and a couple of bhuntang-bhuntings running around the house (she married early). The sight of their mommy gigling on the phone with her ex will probably send the kids wailing and the husband growling and snarling! Unnecessary tension - I say chhodo kal ki bate, kal ki bat purani ....

Sigh!

"Some of us might have become lucky to get that first love as a life partner"

- Are you kidding? That would suck real bad! Look hindi movie romance is for hindi movies only.

"but I bet most of us must have ended up in the middle somewhere."

- Boy, I am glad that I happen to be in the middle somewhere...I am not even sure how to define my first love?

- The one I got my first love letter from and hours of phone call?
or
- The one I kissed first?
or
- The one I slept with first?

...fuk this is all so confusing!

First love. :) That feeling you get in your gut haina? Or heart rather :P I was 7 and he was doing his O levels.He used to dote on us lil ones but me chahi... positive he loved me best. Totally crushed when he started going out with my cousin dd. Heartache at 7 is still an ache too. The wicked in me smirks now to know he is obese now and has grown bald. oooh ! :P

Gone with the wind..

Chris .. whos that song by.. ought to have a listen .:)

Captain Haddock, had me laughing. Kal ho na no.. callher and find out how shes doing.No harm.:)

Gone with the wind....

Scarlett,
Name of the song, "Cannonball" sang by Damien Rice.

And about my first love, its been a year or so that I've been outta touch w/ her, but she is still beautiful to me. I believe she is a women whom if you could make laugh/smile, you get a life.

ChrisCornell