Who we are We are a group of fun-loving people interested in having unbridled fun and talking about the lighter side of life on Sajha.
We are unapologetic about what we say because we don't put too much thought into our words. We have come to learn after all these episodes that when your goal is unrestrained and harmless fun, you can only be so careful or thoughtful about what you say. We mean no harm towards anyone and welcome everyone to join the fun.
The Cafe series, as it has evolved over the weeks and months, is an effort to create a community of like minded people who want to have fun - or as SNDY likes to says - "be good and have fun". That is the only clause in our one-line constitution.
What do we do in the Cafe? Meeting, greeting and sharing is what we do a lot of. As well as singing, dancing, needling (one another of course), opining, joking and anything else to kill time. Not to forget serving and partaking virtual lattes, biscottis, tea, coffee, samosas, jalebis and other tasty baked goods that we take out of the Google Images oven. We've also posted videos, dedicated songs, confessed our crushes, talked about weather, food, work, sports - anything that is fun.
History History is never uncontroversial and ours too might not be free from it.This is version is subject to revision as members deem fit.
This whole thing was started by Hi Nanu and instigated by SNDY. Back in those days, SNDY had so many people to say hi to that she would go on each thread where her friends had posted, and say hi, regardless of what the topic was. It had a positive impact on the site, IMO, because it made conversations lighter and soon others started following that trend and we had several threads where the topic might have been something like the "Collapse of the European Monetary Union" but other than the first few posts, the conversation turned out to be about anything but that.
So one day Hi Dai opened a thread called "Thread for greeting each other". Little did he realize what he had created. That thread filled a vacuum in Sajha, as we saw it, for friendly conversation between people that was free of name calling, personal attacks and caste/creed/school/language prejudices. This was back in the dark days of the caste wars and turf struggles. That thread quickly filled up and reach it's maximum posts in a matter of days and another one was started. And then another and another ...
At that time someone jokingly (perhaps contemptuously) referred to us as the "Nautanki" group. We took on that joke and called our self the Nuatanki Briagade and fulfilled SNDY's long running desire to become a Brigadier. So there were several threads (or episodes as we called them) under the Nautanki banner. We got to a point where we ran the joke to the ground and thought it might be time for a name change. We figured a word like Nautanki can wear out after a while and we suspect it might have deterred some people, who would otherwise have posted, from posting on the thread .
We held a poll on whether or not we should change our name. We decided, by an overwhelming majority, to change the name. It was Juggy who came up with the name "Cafe N". The rest, as they say, is history.
Geography As of last count, in alphabetical order of countries and US states: Alabama, Australia, Belgium, California, Canada, Connecticut, Denmark, Florida, Illinois, India, Iraq, Italy, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Nepal, Netherlands, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, New Zealand, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia, UK, Washington,Washington DC. Some of us haven't disclosed our locations and I might have missed some so the list is probably longer.
Languages Languages heard in the Cafe: English, Nepali, Punjabi, Hindi, Newari, Sanskrit, French, German, Gujrati, Spanish, Esperanto and mixtures and derivatives thereof. The list is bound to grow as we plan to expand to all the corners of the world - although we haven't quite figured how. Politics Constitutional Assembly elections are slated for a some time the future, around NPL2US's recently announced wedding date. The Fun party and the Sun party are running neck to neck so we've figured we are in for some fun and sun regardless of the outcome.
But seriously we tend to leave our politics, class, caste, creed, schooling, religion, Indian idol preferences and anything that could affect the fun on the other side of our keyboards or for other threads. Thapap and Loote may battle it out like there is no tomorrow on other threads, but they've been good buddies here. How do I join ? Post something, anything, in the "be good and have fun" spirit and you are guaranteed to receive a warm welcome
TL confesses to her love of lipstick. Air Sajha plane with the entire Nautanki brigade on-board experiences a near crash resulting in several more confessions from others.
Cleo and Loote's virtual marriage, television shows and favorites foods like lakhamari, sekuwa, momo, Juggy's reports, amongst other things, are the topics of conversation.
(Folks, the above is just my interpretation of things done in the spirit of the Cafe and purely for fun. If there is anything you want changed, added or removed, please let me know)
Hey Lemon. thanks for the song... here's one that you might like!!
And here's another song thats not an oldie.. but one of my favorites nonetheless!! As soon as I hear this song, I feel like getting on my feet and dancing!!
Good night to all!! Hope all of you are healthy in this flu season. It got me pretty bad! Ughhh
.Hey Lemoney.. talk about a nepali who has lived all his life out of Nepal and still proud to be Nepali, it was very touching to see Prashant in dhaka topi with the little khukuri pin on .. awww..kasto mayalu hagi..did you cry too?
LooTeKumar: what made you think that I'd need a leather wig..kina sathi..spatikaran deu ta khurukka..
SNDY: tired? will update you the going ons later hai..
Captaan: not just busy..sometimes I just forget that i am actually breathing.. desparately searching for a site or book on how to win an auditor's heart..hehee
Flipitu: plan flop ho? hasayo timi lay ta... puppy lay guccha challenge garayko cha ni.. bichar kay cha?
Camo: Solta lay naramro sangha ruwai diyo ni(khushi ka aasu ray kya).. Haray..kasto maya lagay ko..samjhi samjhi danga parirako chu..
Nepte,JS,NKC,Cerine, Rythm,Audrey,Manvi: hope you all are doing great..wherever you are.. Hello to the rest hai.. nindra lay bhutukkai bhayay.. pheri bhetaula!
ceru!!!(btw its cero!!check out the mangas i tell u!way better than watchn..well its a personal opinion ;oP)
and nkc...early birds eh?by choice?;oP hehe...anyways good morn there :oD
and well dun really wanna ramble..but got this foward today and did get arse to read ;oP...and well it made me forget some stress for a while so...enjoy!(ps its def lame!;oP hehe)
nkc, u can have the pleasure of opening the cafe everyday :D i'll just sleep longer :D
dannyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.. manga ..ya but i haven't started for bleach...it wud take a while ni:S too many episodes have passed already:D maybe for FMA will do that or DeathNote IQ test this early I am not good :S
Rythm, how ya feeling today? hopefully thousand times better than yesterday :-)
Mav... don't see nails around much must be bz bz like sparrow
Loote.. howdy do?
TL, malai sabai thik cha.. :-) enjoying start of the fall
I'm sure today's going to be a great day here in Cafe..got to read Sum_off ko story ni..
Danny, that's so funny....I didn't even attempt to solve it..he he..how have u been?
Mav, I said hello and u didn't even bother saying hello hoina? What's wrong with you?
Neptem, just pretending to be busy ni...kahile kahi acting sacting ni garnu parcha kya..
Lemony, he he..I'm telling the truth ni.. a dimple is missing..
Flips, did u double celebrate? Shah Rukh apparently was there for the match hagi? He's the lucky mascot re..He gave an interview that he's leaving acting and become a coach..he he..he's funny :)
Capt. saab, me bg bg, u bg bg too?
Loots, r u sure u'll find leather ko saree and wig? Please don't bother if it's taking too much of your time to find it .
Hi Jack, how r u? Classes over? What's for lunch?
Rythm, no hello to me? Katti k..
Camo bhaijaan, official fall start bhaisakyo..ajhai beach ma? Sudhar jaao bhaijan..
NKC, is it the first time you opened the cafe? Dherai fohor ta thiyena?
Hello Avani, Manvi, Cerine
Cleo, where r u? Haven't seen u around for a while now..we're waiting for you hai..
Juggs, timi pani kata ta? Very busy?
Hi dai ko ta k kura garai bho ra..hamro ta naramro maaya marecha..
mave...u didnt see(i dun blame u..its me and my too much ramblings :o( hehe)my request being my manager?u promoting the 9th wonder and well charging them to see it?;oP..darn!and i thot i(we) were gonna make some money!
been making money or smthing good in the past 4 days?i hope so :oD btw didnt u just indirectly said hi to everyone(acknowledged them) by typing u wont say hi to anyone?just checkn with u!;oP hehe
----------- anyways since im here(really didnt wanna type today :oS hehe)
sndy!!u must be jumpin with glee!!!why?do ur SUM urself;oP hehe...oh btw the filling up the blanks..my vocab is pretty bad(worse than urs!and thats the truth notn but the truth!:oD) but i guess in some ways one does know onself more than some others might .."incorrigible" i tell u!yeah that word def fills up every blanks ;oP hehe..
enjoy the readin(not this!sumoffs!which we know u will ;o)..wont add more here cos tryn to make it short as possible tho i hd some other things to share..oh well another day..another time..not like BS is gonna run out on me!wahahah ;oP)
oh seems like u just came..and left some mssg..ughh this multi-taskn!!!no one was here when i 1st started typing this!wahahah ;oP...anyways..just wanted to say..if u didnt even try..u got some workin braincells there ;o)..cos somethings are better not to be tried ;oP..im feeln good now..but yeah..head really will explode soon if u ask me!:o| but its all good!my own bringing :oS and i gotta work it myself :oD..
take care :oD
------- capt..guess wat?i was on the verge of opening this cafe today..have the adv (or is it disadv?:oS) of location/time over most of u folks..but alas!!multitaskn and its consequences :oS...and there i was thinkn..ione small natak from me..to start one giant drama from the nautankis!oh well i stil am doin some so no worries?hehe..
hope the day goes more sane for u today! hehe -------- rythm sis!to keep it short!
divya -> beautiful woman sis -> "" ""
get it? hehe..wasnt spoon feeding u..dn have any spoons :oS..more like hands feedin(i washed my hands dun worry!actually do worry!since u ddnt get to see if i cleaned them well ;oP) hope ur allergy has soothed and ur feeln really good and well!:oD
and oh just smthing that i noticed..the other gender haru ko tanna allergy auda raicha?(i shud look out more?)shows they are they are sensitive?;oP hehe..supposed to be compliment!!:oD i always seem to get misunderstood *sign* :o( ;oP hehe..
nice numbers!i didnt listen to them(cant afford to right now :oS..but since i know those songs!duh!;oP)
take care!:oD and go to the doctor!!:@ wat are u doin here instead!!got sick in the mind too?:oS -------- loote bro/camo haha gucha talks?
brings back some fond memories!wont elabarote!i dun wanna others to doze off during the day!yeah in a kind mood today!;oP...i was a exponent of the middle finger..found that the most comfy and i feel it brought out the best in me ;oP..index fingers just never felt right and didnt have power and control..wat was both ur styles?...ppl who used the underhand(bomb..thats the slang we had for it here haha) and the overhand(chotok!doesnt make sense to u all does it?haha) methods were considered newbies..but well i seen pros of those methods!!so cant really underestimate any styles...tho i still prefer using either the middle/index finger style was better..both in terms of style..spin..aim..etc well we are humans?no?biasness does seeps into us time to time.. doesnt i? ;oP
oh btw loote bro..im pretty curious how would u have reacted(as in the comments that would have flowed out from u ;oP) if pakistan had won? im pretty neutral..as in i celebrate any of those two teams loss!wahahaha ;oP....well have soothed down..hehe..but there was once where i was really urghh..u know anti pakistani..i guess 2 huge reasons..one was my indian frens influence ;oP..they taught me the rules of cricket..so that i could understand wat was goin on in the match if not i just thot ppl were coming in as they like throwing and swinging haphazardly ..another reason was errr...the gal i liked was really close with this pakistani guy and yeah i was filled with jealousy but all is well..not jealous anymore ...got better out of this experience i feel..learned that this "hate/jealousy" aint good i hope so re kya ;oP hehe..ok enuf of dumb personal experience ;oP..oh she and me are still good mates..fullstop!;oP hehe..well thats wat i feel..i dunno how she feels?haha ;oP..well watever happens for the good no?;oP hehe
oh just one question..i dunno if this is a figment of my imagination..but in nepal they did use to put the marbles in the kiln and later flatten them?i remember doin that with frens( tho its a hazy memory..and i remember tryn to do that in another country..never worked!:o| marbles always cracked...urghh :oS...and when i told some other nep frens that we used to flatten them back in nepal..i think i got back laughter :oS..so was it just my vivid imagination playn tricks on me again?:oS say it aint!pls!!white lie anyone!dun feel guilty!;oP hehe
good luck there to both of u!:oD
------ TL if i had a mind(that works?)..i will mind ;oP.. anyways got another nepali word/expression in my dictionary(which i tend to lose a lot :oS hehe) so cheers for that..btw any idea wat taurak means?darn wat was it that sndy mentioned before?:oS...anyways hope u caught up with sleep!cos sleep def wanted to catch up with u didnt it ;o) hehe..
------- lemoney!!!feeln fresh as always!well just ur luck ur nick is lemon!always makes me think of freshness!u know..take a bite of it and u end up squirming and ur tastebuds alive etc ;oP...and no dun call me guffadi!!just saw up there u call nearly everyone that ;oP..
------- npl2us...haha..its good u feel ur IQ isnt good due to that "test" up there...anyone who doesnt fare well in the Idiot-ness Quotient (which shudnt be confused with the Intelligence Quotient) test is a good thing?dun u feel only an idiot will be able to solve that IQ test?and yeah i do feel i came close(does anyone agree with me?;oP) but alas!my frens are gonna be disappointed!im sure they felt i could answer it :o( ;oP hehe..
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fliipu!really not in chatty mood hehe.. congrats to u and ur team..still partyn/celebrating?hehe...and oh u play marbles?how do u throw them?like throwing rocks at guys?...hope all is well :oD
----------- ceru!!u popped in here too!!!;oP
dunno about the deathnote anime..but the manga is good!and complete too!which means u dun have to wait for the new week with new chapters ;oP..one of the most suspenceful work i read :oD..try it out urself..fma..well still waitin for new chapters..most prob might come out during weeknds..and bleach i think u can skip tonnes of the earlier ones..since u already watched them?;oP..let me know until which part u have watched..and i will let u know where i think u shud start reading hehe..
oh i just found another good one today!while procrastinating :oS urghhh...not good!! ---------------
alright this took a tad bit more words(and dots!dun forget them!;oP hehe) than i planned.. anyways congrats to prashant and his fans too :oD...
and yeah one song..(the only thing thats making me not lose my head today and still keepn me awake :oD hehe..)
ek din bik jayega
ek din bik jayega..maati ke mol.. jag mein reh jayenge pyare tere bol.. ek din bik jayega..maati ke mol.. jag mein reh jayenge pyare tere bol..
dooje ke hoton ko dekar apne geet koi nishani chhod..phir duniya se dol..
ek din bik jayega..maati ke mol.. jag mein reh jayenge pyare tere bol..
have a good one all!(esp those i never named!wats in a name eh?;oP hehe)
and yeah i better go burn the midnight oil i had planned to..before the sun rises ;oP..
ok i just noticed how short it wasnt as i had anticipated!!haha dun mind that hai!im feeln sensitive now!wahahaha ;oP.....off to focus and enuf of multi-taskn!!!:oD
hi to everyone!:oD
la la..la la la la..(still listening to that tune up there :oD hehe)
dhara jo behti hai..milke rehti hai behti chara ban ja phir duniya se dol..
ek din bik jayega..maati ke mol.. jag mein reh jayenge pyare tere bol..
Danny, ya I can Sum it up myself..he he..you incorrigible? Me incorrigible too..that's why we both use too many dots (..) all the time..he he..love dots...jpt..
Talk about multitasking..uff..yo multitasking le mero jaan lisakyo..didn't know multitasking was so addictive..anyway, have a great day hai..and see you around.
Fear of being eternally damned for creating too many threads I had to seek asylum in the cafe n asylum to post this picture which is supposed to say a thousand words but ends up with three and that being WTF
Whats happening with all you people? It seems like everyone decided to go and hybernate. I cant believe that sick people (sick=ill not the other sick!!) like me have to actually post here to make it lively. I dont have much energy to take everyone's name.. but thanks all for the wishes. I went to the doctor and got some medicines so felt a bit better! For heavens sake, why are you all in the hiding? Come out and play already!!
Special hi to SNDY.. :D Mummy, kaash tum yaha hoti mujhe medicine khilane. I need some chicken soup and jaulo (I hate jaulo). Care to make some for me please??
A song for all the boring uncles and aunties in here!! Hope this lights up your mood!!
BTW, I enjoy reading your comments on current happenings and more often than not find myself in agreement with you to varying degrees. I think the old must give way to the new and new talent will eventually emerge in Sajha as long as the right conditions exists to foster such talent. Hey, you or Samsara might be the Ashus and Nepes of the future - who knows? LOL!! he he he. My suggestion is, and I say this with the best of intentions, if you see such a vacuum, step up and fill it (which I think you guys are already doing to some extent). You both are perfectly capable, and to a large extent worthy, of setting the agenda on the forum if you ask me. Some might disagree and give you shit and call you names but hey, you can handle that too, and I handle it well, I know for sure.
But, anyways, good to see you here. Have a nice day.
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Why is it so quiet in here today? Looks like everyone busy with their lives. I imagine doing things that are more fun than posting here ... he he. Well, a good afternoon to you all and hope you are enjoying your day.
NPL2US - I was hoping this series would end soon and I could take a break when we start with your thread but this is moving at snail pace. I think we need one of your stories to draw out the crowd ... he he
MAGA and all how do you feel about Trumps cabinet pick?
Those who are in TPS, what’s your backup plan?
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Still under the blanket ?? Wake up everyone 
must be bz bz like sparrow 
hehe..wasnt spoon feeding u..dn have any spoons :oS..more like hands feedin(i washed my hands dun worry!actually do worry!since u ddnt get to see if i cleaned them well ;oP) 
..another reason was errr...the gal i liked was really close with this pakistani guy and yeah i was filled with jealousy